5 Secrets to Feeling More Confident in the Bedroom

5 Secrets to Feeling More Confident in the Bedroom

5 Secrets to Feeling More Confident in the Bedroom 

To feel good and look good in the bedroom, confidence is essential! You can channel the energy you need to pursue your own pleasure in sexual encounters and deepen the intimacy between you and your partner with a confidence boost. 

Secret 1: Grow your Self love  

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To feel more confident in the bedroom it helps to feel more confident in yourself. Focus on the things you love about yourself and your body to boost your self-love and self-confidence. Without self-love you may struggle to loosen up and might lack confidence in the bedroom.  

Secret 2: Set the Scene 

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One of the best ways to feel the most confident in the bedroom is by setting the scene. Treat yourself to some new sexy lingerie to surprise your partner, the perfect lingerie set will hug your curves in all the right places, cinch your waist and highlight your chest. This will make sure that you feel your best and will ensure you’re sexually confident during your intimate time in the bedroom. Don't get us wrong: of course you can feel confident without wearing lingerie! However, if it makes you feel sexy, look sexy, and gets your partner's heart racing, we say why not? Top tip: If you need to replenish your lingerie drawer, we update our sexy selection with new styles every week at Playful Promises 
You can also prepare the room that you’ll have sex in. Start by putting on some music, by adding slow sensual music it can help you focus on feeling good and can distract you from any negative thoughts. Try dimming the lights or light some candles to help set the scene, the darkness can help you and your partner get in the mood while also offering shadows to feel comfortable in. 
Sexy song recommendations 
Often- The Weeknd 
Love me like you do- Ellie Goulding 
Pony- Ginuwine 
Lost In the Fire - Gesaffelstein & The Weeknd  
Earned it- The Weeknd 
Freak- Nicki Minaj 
Or Nah- Ty Dolla $ign,The Weeknd,Wiz Khalifa,Mustard 
Sex With Me- Rihanna 
Pillowtalk- Zayn 
Streets- Doja Cat 

Secret 3: Get Comfortable with Your Partner

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Even if you're only seeing someone to hook up with them, it's crucial to form an emotional bond with them. Having this relationship can help you to build trust, express your needs, and ease into playfulness whenever the chance comes. Also, by creating this emotional bond, you won’t feel pressured to be or act a certain type of way.  

Secret 4: Know what you like 

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When it comes to what turns us on, everyone is built a little differently. If you don't know what you like, then how will someone else ever know how to pleasure you? Don't be afraid to explore your body and pay attention to how your body responds. Masturbating and playing with sex toys is the best way to learn how to feel sexually confident and to fully understand your body. Don't feel sexual shame about playing with a sex toy by yourself. Trust me everybody does it!

Secret 5: Experiment with Props 

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Keeping things interesting is a great way to spice things up and enhance the sexual tension between the both of you, they'll always be on their toes and never know what to expect from you. Incorporating props into the bedroom can help to boost your confidence. You could start by using a massage candle or massage oil to give your partner a sensual massage. Pick from our range of paddles, ticklers, handcuffs, collars, leads, blindfolds, vibrators and more to help you experiment in the bedroom. Shop them in our BDSM  collection.