Whether you’re new to BDSM or an experienced enthusiast, bondage can be a thrilling activity / if you’re just getting started, here are some tips and techniques for beginners that will help make your exploration of this fascinating practice enjoyable, safe and fulfilling. Remember bondage play should always be consensual and safe. Never engage in any activities that could cause harm to yourself or your partner.

 

Bondage is all about trust, so its important to build a foundation of safety first before attempting anything more adventurous. Start with light bondage such as tying someone’s hands together, using silk scarves, handcuffs or bondage tape to restrain your partners wrists or ankles.

Before engaging in any kind of sexual activity including bondage its essential to talk through the scene beforehand and discuss any boundaries or desires both parties may have, it is good to also establish a safe word as a way to ensure everyone involved feels comfortable enough to stop the activity if need be.

Read books or watch instructional videos on bondage techniques to learn new skills and techniques. This will help you build confidence and make the experience more enjoyable for both you and your partner.

Check in with your partner frequently during the play to make sure they are comfortable and enjoying themselves, if they express discomfort or want to stop make sure to release the restraints and stop the play.

Props such as rope or cuffs can be used for different levels of restraint depending on the situation. Make sure you know the basics of knot tying before trying anything more complex such as Shibari (Japanese rope bondage).

Get creative when combining different poses and incorporate other elements like massaging into the experience. Try different positions such as tying your partners wrists to the headboard or tying their ankles together. Keep in mind that the position should be comfortable and consent Is always key – make sure everyone involved is having fun and feeling comfortable with what’s going out throughout.

Incorporating sensory play into your bondage can add another level of excitement, such as using a feather or ice cube to stimulate your partners body. This can heighten the experience and make it more enjoyable for both.

Its important to take care of your partner afterwards by gently removing restraints and massaging areas that have been under tension during playtime (especially wrists/ankles). Its also essential to stay mindful regarding any potential physical injuries that may have occurred during playtime (rashes/bruises) and address if necessary!